Let’s face it, none of us are getting out alive, but how we deal with our inevitable demise is something artists Chloe Osborne and Steven Aron Williams intend to explore with their inclusive Mortal Made Residency this November. 

Bringing together artists, writers, death practitioners, therapists and performers they will create a space for local mortals to explore loss, collective grieving and curiosity/fear of endings.

Over 4 days they will curate opportunities to make art and exit plans, holding spaces that don’t privilege speaking over other forms of expression.It will be a space to work through the British death taboo with subversive acts of moving and making. During the day the residency will offer activities and discussion before turning into a Mezcal, Making and Tattoo Parlour in the evening with a menu of Death Residents offering an array of perspectives and experiences. Guests will also be given their very own Exit Strategy Planner to contemplate their own inevitable send off.

The residency will end with the Send Off Social Club, offering Death Bingo and Mortal Raving to celebrate life and those no longer with us.

It all kicks in off at The Urban Room aka Mugs Coffee Shop on the evening of Thursday 7th November with a Community Ofrenda…

Mortal Made / 7th-10th November
Urban Room / Mugs
Harbour Street, Folkestone, CT20 1TP

SUMMERY

Drop in on Thursday evening
for the Community Ofrenda offerings between 5-7pm. We welcome people to bring photos, flowers and other offerings to honour those no longer with us.

Friday, Saturday, Sunday 11-2 is Mortal Making -  Drop in and make with us, grab a coffee and peruse the death library.

Mezcal and Tattoo Parlour open 5-10pm Friday and Saturday Evening
FREE ENTRY: 
Exit Plans and Death Residents.

Send Off Social Club Sunday from 5pm 
£5 ENTRY
(drink included) - under 18’s free
Death Bingo 5.30 (suitable for all the family), Mortal Raving from 6.30 onwards.

DETAIL

THURSDAY EVENING
Opens Thursday evening drop in between 5 & 7pm 
Floral and bones - make your offerings to the Community Ofrenda
Create your Living Eulogy.
The bar is not open - there will be spiced tea to start the conversation.

WEEKEND DAYTIMES
Friday, Saturday, Sunday
Mortal Making is open during the day for drop ins between 11am-2pm
Turn your hands to clay d'effigies, pomanders, coffin decorating, epitaph writing.
Design an alternative grievance card supported by Objectables.
Floral and bones - make your offerings to the Community Ofrenda.
Create your living eulogy.
Dip into the library of death, dying and send offs.

FRIDAY AND SATURDAY EVENINGS
Mezcal and Tattoo Bar open 5-10pm Friday and Saturday night
FREE ENTRY:
Exit Plans Available for all attendees.
Death Resident sessions 5-7 or 7-9
Or drop in for long as you want.
In Residence: Artist | Florist | Musician | Funeral Director | Tattooist | Celebrate | Writer | Somatic Therapist | Interfaith Minister | Poet
Mezcal and Death Resident Menu available on site and changes daily.

SUNDAY SEND OFF
Or join us on Sunday Night for the Send Off Social Club from 5pm
£5 Entry (with free drink), Under 18's Free
Death Bingo with Brandon (for all ages) kicks off at 5.30
Ramping up for an evening of Mortal Raving with DJ Dalawax

 
In a culture determined to avoid bad or sad thoughts, and when scientific medicine regards death chiefly as a failure of intervention, the unavoidable fact of death becomes a a serious issue. Death was once a part of everyday life; dead bodies were seen on a regular basis, and our encounters with death were contained by rituals, traditions, beliefs systems that enlivened it with meaning, Today, in a largely secular world, death has simply become the enemy, the antithesis of that we hold dear; light, pleasure, and life. We regard death as a great evil, a problem to be solved, and an idea to be avoided.
— Jemma Ebenstein, Memento Mori
 

A Massive thank you to our Death Residents. Link’s to their websites, practices and services are listed below.
Toby Mynott / Funeral Director -
Simple Kent Funerals
Sue Bridge / Artist
Ruth Canning / Artist
Clare Redman / Florist /
Gingerly Green Flower Farm
Timothy Smithen / Tattooist /
BRB Tattoo Folkestone
Phoebe Osborne / Musician
Sharon McCarron / Self Proclaimed Poet
Katie Clements / Poet
Sy Baker / Artist
Anita McKenzie / Interfaith Minister & Artist
Bean / Artist
Ami Robertson / Somantic Therapist
DJ Dalawax

 

Chloe has been holding arts-led spaces to explore grief and death since 2020, when for many it felt that death got so much closer. It sat differently, crouching on handrails and drifting in the air, infecting thoughts and ways of being. It was no longer an ostracized relative in a far flung land but a close family member, sharing a bathroom.

“Grief is like being in a room by yourself, without the words or ability to describe it to people or to see the way in or out… I could sense that there are other rooms, I could feel the big house of it.” - participant of Grief Lab (hosted in partnership with Yomi Sode @ V&A in 2022)

Chloe is becoming a serial eulogist and doesn’t like it. There aren’t enough words.

What if we, as makers, doers, thinkers, sleepers and eaters found ways to hold ourselves and each other in grief?

What if we found and shared ways to fit the rage and grief, of genocide far away and arms made next door, inside our bodies? What if we could do this and still keep moving?

Yes to words but… 

yes to more, too.

How we Mortals bring death into the sensory and familiar and sit friendly with it.

Steven is a visual artist whose curiosity with death stems from what he sees as a cultural paralysis which afflicts the society he grew up in. Death and grief are swept under the carpet, stoicism prevails. Everything is just dealt with efficiently, the colourful craziness of life discarded. There is such a massive disconnect between the living and the dead.

His traveling has opened his eyes to the attitudes, rituals and traditions of other cultures that feel more honest and human. Perhaps too honest in some instances but he believes there is so much we can learn and take solace in.

It has also led him to contemplate his own inevitable exit. The funerals he has attended over the years (he avoids them if possible) each had a prescribed monotony that didn’t seem to really reflect the people lost. It’s such a shame and made the occasions far more traumatic than they already were.

 If our exits were really contemplated, planned and shared whilst we’re still full of life, perhaps they would be more life-affirming experiences for those left behind?”